The Only Way To Survive Was To Live Life On My Own Terms

Janice M. Flanders
3 min readApr 11, 2022

Everyone has learned how to say NO by now. It makes life better.

Photo by Catalin Pop

I mastered the art of not letting others rule and dictate what I did and how I should live my life. I discovered, however that I forgot to stop saying NO to myself.

In my mind, I was tethered to constructs that told me that I could not release myself from my shortcomings before…

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Janice M. Flanders

Writer/Journalist. Artist. Environmental Justice Advocate. Social Media Analyst. Friend to the Planet and it’s creatures. I love words, birds, and nerds.